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I married a female version of me. So yes.
I turned out to be the only successful way that I could actually have more of me. And I'm quite fond of me, so . . .
you should clone yourself and get a few extra of you...or I guess you could just have kids.
When younger I did not like other enfps. I didnt know very many and the few I knew seemed very silly. I always hung out with NTs. However in the last few years I find them and I have realized they are just like me, but I squish it all down inside and hide it.
So now we play like little kids. I also find oddly, that my ENFP supervisors in upper management, are highly protective of me. My entp made the mistake of calling me out in a meeting I wasnt in and my enfp boss got "the look". My entp said it's the look I get before I try and kill people.
My enfps on my level-there are a few. I held one's hand the other day while she cried and I tried to explain why it is she judges herself so harshly and why it is okay to detach from her job emotionally.
The other was a guy. I can actually hug and hold this guy in a very intimate way, yet it isnt about sex at all. He was in a great deal of pain after breaking up with a girl. So I hugged him and told him he was an enfp and it was okay to be emo. The girl had said he cried too much and was a baby.
eye contact with other enfps-we just get each other. I have to say it is comforting to interact with other enfps here, as i dont feel so strange. You guys "feel" my feelings, if that makes sense.