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Free Enneagram Tritype(R) Test | Originator of Tritype
I know previous versions of this have their own threads, but I thought I'd start a new one since it was recently updated and it's currently free to take.
My results: I actually got 9!!!!!! Too bad the other numbers are incorrect. sx/sp/so
Primary Enneagram Type 9*
Common Names For Type 9 Peaceful Person, Mediator, Peacemaker, Harmonizer, Connector, Pleasant Person
Enneagram Tritype® Stacking 6-9-4*
Tritype® Archetype The Seeker - 469, 496, 649, 694, 946, 964
Instinctual Type Stacking Intimate
Instinctual Stack Intimate / Self-Preserving / Social
* Special Note: Indicates your Enneagram Type and Tritype do not match, which suggests you lead with Type 6 or 9.
I know previous versions of this have their own threads, but I thought I'd start a new one since it was recently updated and it's currently free to take.
My results: I actually got 9!!!!!! Too bad the other numbers are incorrect. sx/sp/so
Primary Enneagram Type 9*
Common Names For Type 9 Peaceful Person, Mediator, Peacemaker, Harmonizer, Connector, Pleasant Person
Enneagram Tritype® Stacking 6-9-4*
Tritype® Archetype The Seeker - 469, 496, 649, 694, 946, 964
Instinctual Type Stacking Intimate
Instinctual Stack Intimate / Self-Preserving / Social
* Special Note: Indicates your Enneagram Type and Tritype do not match, which suggests you lead with Type 6 or 9.
Your Top Ranked Enneacard: Type 9
Your Tritype® Stacking: 6-9-4
Peaceful Person, Mediator, Peacemaker, Harmonizer, Connector, Pleasant Person
Type: 9
Overview
Your Most Likely Enneacard: Type 6 or 9
Names: Loyal Person, Devil’s Advocate, Troubleshooter, Guardian, Trooper, Dedicated Person
Type 6
Overview
Instincts:
Your Tritype® Stacking: 6-9-4
Peaceful Person, Mediator, Peacemaker, Harmonizer, Connector, Pleasant Person
Type: 9
Overview
Nines want to be agreeable, peaceful, natural and comfortable. More importantly, they want to be calm, and if at all possible, to avoid conflict. Nines see themselves as accepting, unassuming and laid-back. Nines would like others to see them as humble, easygoing and approachable. Their idealized image is that they are content and harmonious.
Desiring union, harmony and unconditional love, Nines get along with most people that they meet. Considerate and gentle, they have an innate ability to make people feel comfortable and at ease. Nines are very accepting and readily empathize with others. Focused on the well-being of others, they may at times lose sight of their own agenda. More intellectual than they let on, they have a natural gift for seeing many different points of view. Nines are able to see all the shades of gray in any given situation and have a way of diffusing conflict and being calm and steady in a crisis. Focusing on similarities rather than differences, they make an excellent mediator and peacemaker.
Nines don’t want to be drawn into conflict and avoid being pressured to react. Self-forgetting by nature, they repress their anger and neglect their needs in order to avoid the discomfort that comes with conflict. Because Nines may lose themselves in life’s simple pleasures, the needs of others, or the basic task of living, they may never go after what they truly want. Nines may struggle to find their one true passion. At times, they may be complacent and minimize anything that is upsetting.
Often the strong, silent type, Nines have the power of patience, persistence and resistance. Nines see themselves as having stamina and take pride in their ability to endure. They tend to procrastinate and take longer than others to make up their mind. When they do make a decision, they are like an unstoppable elephant pursuing its goals. Not one to self-promote, they would rather be discovered than announce themselves. Others may underestimate their due to their casual and nonchalant attitude. This is nearly always a mistake–one that they are happy to let others make because they prefer not to flaunt their talents or appear egotistical.
Need
Nines need simplicity, peace, harmony and to be appreciated. Because they are highly empathetic, they need to know that the people around them are relaxed in order for them to be able to relax. To truly be at ease, Nines need to have their creature comforts and are unwilling go without them. Publicly, they may go along to get along, but when in private they make sure that they have what makes them feel happy and comfortable.
Avoid
Nines avoid conflict, complications and judgmental people. Being shut down, overlooked and not included by others are among their greatest fears. Nines are afraid of being loveless and of not receiving or being able to give love. Paradoxically, their avoidance of anger and conflict can lead to more conflict. Nines don’t want to deal with anything until they are good and ready. It is hard for them to say no, so yes means maybe and maybe means absolutely not!
Virtue
Nines virtues are their acceptance, peacefulness and ability to see universal truths. Open and receptive, they easily relate to others. When Nines are at their best, they can be both personally and universally connected. Whether they prefer simple pleasures or intellectual pursuits, they are always seeking what is harmonious. Nines often show their love by working hard, and they can make great contributions to others. Down to earth, steady, patient and easygoing, they bring a sense of calm to any given situation. Steadfast and persistent, Nines are able to endure even the most tedious and difficult circumstances.
Vice
Nines vices are indolence, inaction or sloth. This can lead to self-forgetting and neglecting their own needs and/or the needs of others. Their inattention and forgetfulness can manifest as “crimes of omissionâ€. You may also be stubborn or turn a blind eye to someone in need. Everyone thinks that you are on his or her side and can interpret their understanding as agreement. Overly avoiding conflict, they are most likely to hurt the people around them by not keeping promises due to their lack of follow-through. This can make for a passive-aggressive stance in life where Nines don’t see the impact of their inaction and can appear callous or indifferent.
Attention
Nines’ attention goes to identifying with and merging with others. Their soft, pillowy energy tends to spread outwards and become diffuse. Because they sense and champion the needs and feelings of whatever group they are in, they are a natural group anchors. To avoid feeling tension and conflict, they may reach for substitutes for love by eating, focusing on the minutia or getting lost in unimportant tasks.
Spiritual Path
The Nines spiritual journey is to reclaim their sense of right action and awaken from the coma of self-forgetting. Spiritual growth will come to them as they reclaim, define and assert their sense of self in the world.
Mantra
True love is action and not passive acceptance. To be truly loving requires that they define your values and take a stand for what you believe is important– regardless of the conflict it may cause. Indecisiveness and a fear of upsetting people can prevent you from taking appropriate action. Remember that no decision is a decision, and a “stitch in time saves nineâ€.
Wing
The Enneagram Type 9 with the 1 Wing, desires to appear elusive. They see themselves as pragmatic, clear, collected, funny, calm and harmonious.
The Enneagram Type 9 with the 8 Wing, desires to be natural. They see themselves as dignified, comfortable, loving, aloof, strong and kind.
Famous Type 9s
Loni Anderson, Bali, Annette Bening, Tony Bennett, Ernest Borgnine, Matthew Broderick, Sandra Bullock, George Burns, Kate Bush, Art Carney, Keith Carradine, Julia Child, Connie Chung, Bill Clinton, Columbo, Gary Cooper, Kevin Costner, The Dalai Lama, Jeff Daniels, Oscar de la Renta, Clint Eastwood, Dwight Eisenhower, Queen Elizabeth II, Shelley Fabares, Peter Falk, Gerald Ford, Dennis Franz, Annette Funicello, Mahatma Gandhi, John Goodman, Tipper Gore, Elliott Gould, Charles Grodin, Woody Harrelson, Patty Hearst, Mariel Hemingway, Audrey Hepburn, Barbara Hershey, Anjelica Huston, Shirley Jones, C.G. Jung, Grace Kelly, Nancy Kerrigan, Lisa Kudrow, Stan Laurel, Jennifer Jason Leigh, Abraham Lincoln, Andie MacDowell, Mr. Magoo, Dean Martin, Jerry Mathers, Dan Quayle, James Earl Ray, Ronald Reagan, Ralph Richardson, Carl Rogers, Roy Rogers, Gena Rowlands, Eva Marie Saint, Garry Shandling, Martin Sheen, Tom Skerritt, Ringo Starr, Mary Steenburgen, Daniel Stern, James Stewart, Eric Stoltz, Billy Bob Thornton, Andy Williams, Tricia Yearwood, Renee Zellweger, Joe DiMaggio,George Lucas.
Download Type 9 Cheat Sheet
Enneatypes at a Glance
Desiring union, harmony and unconditional love, Nines get along with most people that they meet. Considerate and gentle, they have an innate ability to make people feel comfortable and at ease. Nines are very accepting and readily empathize with others. Focused on the well-being of others, they may at times lose sight of their own agenda. More intellectual than they let on, they have a natural gift for seeing many different points of view. Nines are able to see all the shades of gray in any given situation and have a way of diffusing conflict and being calm and steady in a crisis. Focusing on similarities rather than differences, they make an excellent mediator and peacemaker.
Nines don’t want to be drawn into conflict and avoid being pressured to react. Self-forgetting by nature, they repress their anger and neglect their needs in order to avoid the discomfort that comes with conflict. Because Nines may lose themselves in life’s simple pleasures, the needs of others, or the basic task of living, they may never go after what they truly want. Nines may struggle to find their one true passion. At times, they may be complacent and minimize anything that is upsetting.
Often the strong, silent type, Nines have the power of patience, persistence and resistance. Nines see themselves as having stamina and take pride in their ability to endure. They tend to procrastinate and take longer than others to make up their mind. When they do make a decision, they are like an unstoppable elephant pursuing its goals. Not one to self-promote, they would rather be discovered than announce themselves. Others may underestimate their due to their casual and nonchalant attitude. This is nearly always a mistake–one that they are happy to let others make because they prefer not to flaunt their talents or appear egotistical.
Need
Nines need simplicity, peace, harmony and to be appreciated. Because they are highly empathetic, they need to know that the people around them are relaxed in order for them to be able to relax. To truly be at ease, Nines need to have their creature comforts and are unwilling go without them. Publicly, they may go along to get along, but when in private they make sure that they have what makes them feel happy and comfortable.
Avoid
Nines avoid conflict, complications and judgmental people. Being shut down, overlooked and not included by others are among their greatest fears. Nines are afraid of being loveless and of not receiving or being able to give love. Paradoxically, their avoidance of anger and conflict can lead to more conflict. Nines don’t want to deal with anything until they are good and ready. It is hard for them to say no, so yes means maybe and maybe means absolutely not!
Virtue
Nines virtues are their acceptance, peacefulness and ability to see universal truths. Open and receptive, they easily relate to others. When Nines are at their best, they can be both personally and universally connected. Whether they prefer simple pleasures or intellectual pursuits, they are always seeking what is harmonious. Nines often show their love by working hard, and they can make great contributions to others. Down to earth, steady, patient and easygoing, they bring a sense of calm to any given situation. Steadfast and persistent, Nines are able to endure even the most tedious and difficult circumstances.
Vice
Nines vices are indolence, inaction or sloth. This can lead to self-forgetting and neglecting their own needs and/or the needs of others. Their inattention and forgetfulness can manifest as “crimes of omissionâ€. You may also be stubborn or turn a blind eye to someone in need. Everyone thinks that you are on his or her side and can interpret their understanding as agreement. Overly avoiding conflict, they are most likely to hurt the people around them by not keeping promises due to their lack of follow-through. This can make for a passive-aggressive stance in life where Nines don’t see the impact of their inaction and can appear callous or indifferent.
Attention
Nines’ attention goes to identifying with and merging with others. Their soft, pillowy energy tends to spread outwards and become diffuse. Because they sense and champion the needs and feelings of whatever group they are in, they are a natural group anchors. To avoid feeling tension and conflict, they may reach for substitutes for love by eating, focusing on the minutia or getting lost in unimportant tasks.
Spiritual Path
The Nines spiritual journey is to reclaim their sense of right action and awaken from the coma of self-forgetting. Spiritual growth will come to them as they reclaim, define and assert their sense of self in the world.
Mantra
True love is action and not passive acceptance. To be truly loving requires that they define your values and take a stand for what you believe is important– regardless of the conflict it may cause. Indecisiveness and a fear of upsetting people can prevent you from taking appropriate action. Remember that no decision is a decision, and a “stitch in time saves nineâ€.
Wing
The Enneagram Type 9 with the 1 Wing, desires to appear elusive. They see themselves as pragmatic, clear, collected, funny, calm and harmonious.
The Enneagram Type 9 with the 8 Wing, desires to be natural. They see themselves as dignified, comfortable, loving, aloof, strong and kind.
Famous Type 9s
Loni Anderson, Bali, Annette Bening, Tony Bennett, Ernest Borgnine, Matthew Broderick, Sandra Bullock, George Burns, Kate Bush, Art Carney, Keith Carradine, Julia Child, Connie Chung, Bill Clinton, Columbo, Gary Cooper, Kevin Costner, The Dalai Lama, Jeff Daniels, Oscar de la Renta, Clint Eastwood, Dwight Eisenhower, Queen Elizabeth II, Shelley Fabares, Peter Falk, Gerald Ford, Dennis Franz, Annette Funicello, Mahatma Gandhi, John Goodman, Tipper Gore, Elliott Gould, Charles Grodin, Woody Harrelson, Patty Hearst, Mariel Hemingway, Audrey Hepburn, Barbara Hershey, Anjelica Huston, Shirley Jones, C.G. Jung, Grace Kelly, Nancy Kerrigan, Lisa Kudrow, Stan Laurel, Jennifer Jason Leigh, Abraham Lincoln, Andie MacDowell, Mr. Magoo, Dean Martin, Jerry Mathers, Dan Quayle, James Earl Ray, Ronald Reagan, Ralph Richardson, Carl Rogers, Roy Rogers, Gena Rowlands, Eva Marie Saint, Garry Shandling, Martin Sheen, Tom Skerritt, Ringo Starr, Mary Steenburgen, Daniel Stern, James Stewart, Eric Stoltz, Billy Bob Thornton, Andy Williams, Tricia Yearwood, Renee Zellweger, Joe DiMaggio,George Lucas.
Download Type 9 Cheat Sheet
Enneatypes at a Glance
Your Most Likely Enneacard: Type 6 or 9
Names: Loyal Person, Devil’s Advocate, Troubleshooter, Guardian, Trooper, Dedicated Person
Type 6
Overview
Sixes want to be safe and secure, to fit in and belong. More importantly, they want to have certainty and security, putting their faith in a trusted authority, belief system or tradition. Sixes see yourself as loyal, friendly, conservative and/or cautious. Sixes would like others to see them as trustworthy, dedicated and reliable. Their idealized image is that they are supportive, responsible and dutiful.
Sixes are innately curious with a wonderful sense of humor. A bundle of contradictions, Sixes can be wary and cautious one minute and/or rebellious and courageous the next. Sixes possess an endearing childlike reactivity and often take the position of the devil’s advocate to promote a sense of pair play. Depending on the situation, Sixes can be friendly and outgoing or reserved and skeptical. A ‘good soldier’, they prefer the role of buddy, loyal family member or trusted employee. They can be a reluctant authority because their fear that taking on a leadership position might make them a target for opposition. So, Sixes chose your positions carefully. To manage anxiety, they seek comic relief.
Sixes are attracted to people who are strong, protective and/or have prestige. Sixes seek trusted, reliable authorities and allies. Often identifying with the underdog and distrustful of people’s hidden agendas, they are slow to trust new acquaintances. Keenly aware that they could be duped or taken advantage of, they pay attention to insincerity and inconsistencies. To determine if someone is trustworthy, Sixes watch for and question any discrepancy they observe. Once someone passes the testing process Sixes become deeply committed and a most loyal friend. Devoted to their friends and family, they show allegiance over individuality.
Seeking certainty, Sixes tend to be cynical. Because Sixes are afraid of being unprepared or caught off guard, they often rehearse in their mind what they might say or do. Imaginative and visual, they can often see what might go wrong. They may even enjoy scaring themselves by thinking of worst-case scenarios so that they will never feel paralyzed by the fear of not knowing what to say or do. Although Sixes are afraid to be afraid, they can learn mind or matter and they are capable of being profoundly dutiful and heroic. Once Sixes let go of doubts, their fear turns into excitement and they can surprise yourself with unexpected acts of valor.
Need
You need predictability, a protective, authority and the security of feeling that you belong. You long for trustworthy guidance to manage the feelings of fear and doubt. You can be a “proof junkie†who needs to test people, ideas and beliefs over and over again to see if they are worthy of your loyalty. You tend to need reassurance and encouraging, positive feedback from friends and loved ones.
Avoid
Sixes avoid deviance, uncertainty and anything that is different from any group or idea to which they ascribe. They are highly motivated to avoid disappointing friends or authority figures. Fear and doubt can undermine their sense of safety. Sixes are afraid of fear, submission and cowardice, so they vacillate between loyalty and rebelliousness by puffing up and backing down. Sixes fear anything unproven or radical. they also are afraid of deviating from the norm or being different from your peers. Their greatest fear, however, is to be alone and unprotected.
Virtue
Sixes greatest strengths lie in their ability to test for the truth and in recognizing and challenge a bad authority. Loyal and dedicated, they understand the value of making sacrifices for the group and are willing to enforce society’s rules to ensure safety and security for all. Sixes believe that if everyone followed the rules and cooperated with one another, the world would be a safer place. A hero at heart, they are capable of great acts of loyalty and courage.
Vice
Sixes vice is fear. This manifests as excessive doubt and playing the devil’s advocate. Their drive for security can cause them to envision a dangerous and divisive world in which they feel persecuted and then may persecute those who deviate from the rules or the norm. When Sixes are afraid, they doubt their own authority and can become provocative and undermining. Seeking security, they try to control others by ensnaring them in their fears and doubts. A lack of faith in their own authority can cause Sixes to overly submit to or challenge others, the rules or authority figures.
Attention
Sixes attention goes to feelings of fear and doubt and scanning for danger, hidden motives or agendas. They have a tendency to focus on the worst-case scenario. Sixes fears and doubts can keep them from taking action and/or trusting themselves and others. They may at times be overly phobic and at other times overly counter-phobic.
Spiritual Path
The Sixes spiritual path is to reclaim their sense of faith and courage and see unity instead of differences. In Sixes search for security, remember that the only real security lies in having faith and in trusting themselves.
Mantra
As you learn to relax and trust yourself, fear will often turn to excitement and courage. Remember, people are far more alike than they are different. Embrace what is new and unfamiliar as an opportunity to remember what you already know and trust. Instead of idealizing those who rescue or protect others, overcome your tendency to hesitate or doubt and take action.
Wing
The Enneagram Type 6 with the 5 Wing, desires to appear remote. They see themselves as reserved, faithful, knowing, intelligent, refined, real and brave.
The Enneagram Type 6 with the 7 Wing, desires to appear conformist and fit in with others expectations. They see themselves as loyal, friendly, intelligent, casual, related, interested, energetic, warm and wary.
Famous 6s:
Phobic: Jason Alexander, Woody Allen, Alan Arkin, Kim Basinger, Candice Bergen, Albert Brooks, George Bush, Lynda Carter, Stockard Channing, Rodney Dangerfield, Ellen DeGeneres, Eminem, Sally Field, Teri Garr, Ed Harris, Janet Leigh, Jack Lemmon, Richard Lewis, Penny Marshall, Marilyn Monroe, Mary Tyler Moore, Bob Newhart, Richard Nixon, Lena Olin, Anthony Perkins, Sydney Pollack, Paul Reiser, Pat Robertson, Rene Russo, Kristin Scott-Thomas, Carly Simon, Bruce Springsteen, Jon Stewart, Meg Tilly, Brian Wilson.
Counterphobic: Ellen Barkin, Warren Beatty, Judy Davis, Phil Donahue, Carrie Fisher, Mel Gibson, Andrew Grove, Gene Hackman, Adolf Hitler, Dustin Hoffman, J. Edgar Hoover, Tommy Lee Jones, Wynonna Judd, J. Krishnamurti, Spike Lee, David Letterman, Gordon Liddy, Charles Manson, Steve McQueen, Michael Moore, Paul Newman, Chuck Norris, Rosie Perez, Richard Pryor, Robert Redford, Janet Reno, Julia Roberts, Meg Ryan, Steven Seagal, Ben Stiller, Patrick Swayze, Justin Timberlake, Linda Tripp, Ted Turner, Sean Young.
Download Type 6 Cheat Sheet
Enneatypes at a Glance
Sixes are innately curious with a wonderful sense of humor. A bundle of contradictions, Sixes can be wary and cautious one minute and/or rebellious and courageous the next. Sixes possess an endearing childlike reactivity and often take the position of the devil’s advocate to promote a sense of pair play. Depending on the situation, Sixes can be friendly and outgoing or reserved and skeptical. A ‘good soldier’, they prefer the role of buddy, loyal family member or trusted employee. They can be a reluctant authority because their fear that taking on a leadership position might make them a target for opposition. So, Sixes chose your positions carefully. To manage anxiety, they seek comic relief.
Sixes are attracted to people who are strong, protective and/or have prestige. Sixes seek trusted, reliable authorities and allies. Often identifying with the underdog and distrustful of people’s hidden agendas, they are slow to trust new acquaintances. Keenly aware that they could be duped or taken advantage of, they pay attention to insincerity and inconsistencies. To determine if someone is trustworthy, Sixes watch for and question any discrepancy they observe. Once someone passes the testing process Sixes become deeply committed and a most loyal friend. Devoted to their friends and family, they show allegiance over individuality.
Seeking certainty, Sixes tend to be cynical. Because Sixes are afraid of being unprepared or caught off guard, they often rehearse in their mind what they might say or do. Imaginative and visual, they can often see what might go wrong. They may even enjoy scaring themselves by thinking of worst-case scenarios so that they will never feel paralyzed by the fear of not knowing what to say or do. Although Sixes are afraid to be afraid, they can learn mind or matter and they are capable of being profoundly dutiful and heroic. Once Sixes let go of doubts, their fear turns into excitement and they can surprise yourself with unexpected acts of valor.
Need
You need predictability, a protective, authority and the security of feeling that you belong. You long for trustworthy guidance to manage the feelings of fear and doubt. You can be a “proof junkie†who needs to test people, ideas and beliefs over and over again to see if they are worthy of your loyalty. You tend to need reassurance and encouraging, positive feedback from friends and loved ones.
Avoid
Sixes avoid deviance, uncertainty and anything that is different from any group or idea to which they ascribe. They are highly motivated to avoid disappointing friends or authority figures. Fear and doubt can undermine their sense of safety. Sixes are afraid of fear, submission and cowardice, so they vacillate between loyalty and rebelliousness by puffing up and backing down. Sixes fear anything unproven or radical. they also are afraid of deviating from the norm or being different from your peers. Their greatest fear, however, is to be alone and unprotected.
Virtue
Sixes greatest strengths lie in their ability to test for the truth and in recognizing and challenge a bad authority. Loyal and dedicated, they understand the value of making sacrifices for the group and are willing to enforce society’s rules to ensure safety and security for all. Sixes believe that if everyone followed the rules and cooperated with one another, the world would be a safer place. A hero at heart, they are capable of great acts of loyalty and courage.
Vice
Sixes vice is fear. This manifests as excessive doubt and playing the devil’s advocate. Their drive for security can cause them to envision a dangerous and divisive world in which they feel persecuted and then may persecute those who deviate from the rules or the norm. When Sixes are afraid, they doubt their own authority and can become provocative and undermining. Seeking security, they try to control others by ensnaring them in their fears and doubts. A lack of faith in their own authority can cause Sixes to overly submit to or challenge others, the rules or authority figures.
Attention
Sixes attention goes to feelings of fear and doubt and scanning for danger, hidden motives or agendas. They have a tendency to focus on the worst-case scenario. Sixes fears and doubts can keep them from taking action and/or trusting themselves and others. They may at times be overly phobic and at other times overly counter-phobic.
Spiritual Path
The Sixes spiritual path is to reclaim their sense of faith and courage and see unity instead of differences. In Sixes search for security, remember that the only real security lies in having faith and in trusting themselves.
Mantra
As you learn to relax and trust yourself, fear will often turn to excitement and courage. Remember, people are far more alike than they are different. Embrace what is new and unfamiliar as an opportunity to remember what you already know and trust. Instead of idealizing those who rescue or protect others, overcome your tendency to hesitate or doubt and take action.
Wing
The Enneagram Type 6 with the 5 Wing, desires to appear remote. They see themselves as reserved, faithful, knowing, intelligent, refined, real and brave.
The Enneagram Type 6 with the 7 Wing, desires to appear conformist and fit in with others expectations. They see themselves as loyal, friendly, intelligent, casual, related, interested, energetic, warm and wary.
Famous 6s:
Phobic: Jason Alexander, Woody Allen, Alan Arkin, Kim Basinger, Candice Bergen, Albert Brooks, George Bush, Lynda Carter, Stockard Channing, Rodney Dangerfield, Ellen DeGeneres, Eminem, Sally Field, Teri Garr, Ed Harris, Janet Leigh, Jack Lemmon, Richard Lewis, Penny Marshall, Marilyn Monroe, Mary Tyler Moore, Bob Newhart, Richard Nixon, Lena Olin, Anthony Perkins, Sydney Pollack, Paul Reiser, Pat Robertson, Rene Russo, Kristin Scott-Thomas, Carly Simon, Bruce Springsteen, Jon Stewart, Meg Tilly, Brian Wilson.
Counterphobic: Ellen Barkin, Warren Beatty, Judy Davis, Phil Donahue, Carrie Fisher, Mel Gibson, Andrew Grove, Gene Hackman, Adolf Hitler, Dustin Hoffman, J. Edgar Hoover, Tommy Lee Jones, Wynonna Judd, J. Krishnamurti, Spike Lee, David Letterman, Gordon Liddy, Charles Manson, Steve McQueen, Michael Moore, Paul Newman, Chuck Norris, Rosie Perez, Richard Pryor, Robert Redford, Janet Reno, Julia Roberts, Meg Ryan, Steven Seagal, Ben Stiller, Patrick Swayze, Justin Timberlake, Linda Tripp, Ted Turner, Sean Young.
Download Type 6 Cheat Sheet
Enneatypes at a Glance
If you are a 6, you want to be safe, secure, fit in and belong. Most importantly, you want to have certainty, putting your faith in a reliable authority, a trusted friend or a known system or tradition. You are the true devil’s advocate and can always see both sides of every issue. You can struggle with feelings of fear, doubt and/or anxiety. Under stress, you can worry about being blamed and to protect yourself you can undermine or blame others. If you are the cautious phobic 6, you will manage your fear by focusing on what could go wrong and by avoiding any perceived hazard. If you are an assertive counter-phobic 6, you may face your fear and take calculated risks to prove that you are not afraid of any perceived hazard. Secretly, you still prepare. Your core fears are of being alone, in trouble with someone, blamed for something you didn’t do, anxious and afraid that you might be or act afraid, worrying that something will go wrong, being unprepared, without a protector or back up support person and/or wise others with expertise. At your best, you are courageous, supportive, engaging, dedicated and loyal.
If you are a 9, you want to be peaceful, relaxed, comfortable and natural. Most importantly, you want to be agreeable and if at all possible to avoid conflict. You are a nice person and go along to get along. You want harmonious relationships. You are very receptive and a good listener. You are patient and like to take your time in whatever you do. You may have problems with inaction. Under stress, you may be passive-aggressive, neglectful and/or indifferent to the needs of others. You may be unresponsive and/or minimize. Your core fears are of being loveless, uncomfortable, inharmonious, overlooked, discordant, unimportant, non-existent, lost in complications and/or shutout. At your best, you are steady, kind, accepting, and deeply connected to others and able to successfully mediate differences and restore harmony.
If you are a 4, you want to be inspired, intuitive, original and unique. Most importantly, you want to be passionate, true to your feelings and be authentic. You see yourself as a sensitive intellectual that is creative, expressive and spiritual. You are identified with your emotional states and their meaning. You see yourself as emotionally deep and seek beauty and meaning in every thing you do. You may have problems with envy. Under stress, you may be moody, haughty or overly emotional. Your core fears are of being painfully lacking, inadequate, flawed, defective, ordinary, not realizing your potential and being emotionally cut off. At your best, you are emotionally self-aware, self-revealing, creative and extremely compassionate and humane.
If you are a 9, you want to be peaceful, relaxed, comfortable and natural. Most importantly, you want to be agreeable and if at all possible to avoid conflict. You are a nice person and go along to get along. You want harmonious relationships. You are very receptive and a good listener. You are patient and like to take your time in whatever you do. You may have problems with inaction. Under stress, you may be passive-aggressive, neglectful and/or indifferent to the needs of others. You may be unresponsive and/or minimize. Your core fears are of being loveless, uncomfortable, inharmonious, overlooked, discordant, unimportant, non-existent, lost in complications and/or shutout. At your best, you are steady, kind, accepting, and deeply connected to others and able to successfully mediate differences and restore harmony.
If you are a 4, you want to be inspired, intuitive, original and unique. Most importantly, you want to be passionate, true to your feelings and be authentic. You see yourself as a sensitive intellectual that is creative, expressive and spiritual. You are identified with your emotional states and their meaning. You see yourself as emotionally deep and seek beauty and meaning in every thing you do. You may have problems with envy. Under stress, you may be moody, haughty or overly emotional. Your core fears are of being painfully lacking, inadequate, flawed, defective, ordinary, not realizing your potential and being emotionally cut off. At your best, you are emotionally self-aware, self-revealing, creative and extremely compassionate and humane.
Instincts:
Primary Instinctual Type: Intimate
Your Instinctual Stacking: Intimate / Self-Preserving / Social
Personal Aide/Assistant, Valet, Model Person, Therapist, Animal Lover
Instinctual Type Stacking Points
Intimate: 33
Self-Preserving: 18
Social: 18
Self-Preserving
The self-preserving instinct is driven by the ongoing search for survival and well-being. Anything that could possibly damage, endanger, or exploit the self and/or the body is of concern. The focus of attention is subtly on "the self", "my body" and "my world." The primary desire is for survival which is manifested by a continual perceived quest for well being and for the "essentials" of life, such as: safety, security, food, shelter, comfort, protection, and resources. They tend to be maternal individuals that seek and offer or withhold nurturance.
The concerns of the self-preserving types involve issues of living and compromise - for example, "to be or not to be" or "how to be." The survival strategy places an intense emphasis on either caution or self-destruction. The focus is to aggressively go after what one needs and/or to defensively hold onto what one has. The common theme statements reflect the attention to "self," such as “I am my body, therefore, what does my body need?" "How am I?" "How comfortably and successfully am I experiencing my body?" "What are my immediate physical needs and desires?"
The energy projected is described as "conserved energy" and is often experienced as "grounded," as if it were tightly contained around the body like a spiral coil. The energy is usually somber, heavy, and serious in nature, as if the person is attempting to function while carrying some great weight on his or her shoulders, and is thus conserving energy for later personal use. The self-preserving types will "sacrifice for self" to insure survival. Rather than looking to the group or a mate to "solve problems," these types tend to "look inward" based upon an inherent recognition that "I'm on my own" and "I have to take care of myself."
Social
The social instinct is driven by the ongoing search for others, groups and community, akin to the herd instinct in animals, where there are safety and security in numbers. The focus of attention is on "my circle of friends", "the group" and "our greater world." The primary desire is for others or groups, which is manifested by an imbalanced perceived need for people, recognition, popularity, honor, status, position and social acceptance. They tend to be paternal individuals that seek and suggesting ways to cooperate with or rebel against social norms.
The concerns of the social types involve issues of relating - for example, "to relate or not to relate" or "how to relate." The survival strategy is an emphasis on sociability or unsociability. The common theme statements reflect an inclination to categorize oneself in terms of others, such as “I am my position with respect to others or society, therefore, what do I need to do to fit in?" "Who am I?" "Who should I be with?" "How comfortably and successfully am I experiencing my group?" "How am I perceived by the others or the group?"
The energy projected is described as "split energy" and is often experienced as "scattered" and projected outward, appearing personable, superficial, and cursory in nature. It is imperative that "a good impression is made" and that "nothing important is missed." The social types will "sacrifice for the group" to insure status. Rather than looking inward or to a mate for security and to "solve problems," these types tend to "look outward," based upon a belief that "my value is dependent upon how I am perceived by the group." "We can make it if we all cooperate and work together."
Sexual / Intimate
The sexual instinct is driven by the ongoing search for intimacy, pair bonding, connection and one-to-one relationships. The drive is especially representative of the masculine and feminine energies: the very qualities that determine the strongest and most desirable of mates. The focus of attention is on "the beloved", "my special friend" and "our intimate world." The primary desire is for a mate, which is manifested by an imbalanced perceived need for connection, wholeness, affinity, and closeness in a continual search for "the other half." They tend to be highly charged and charismatic individuals that seek and create or reject intimacy.
The concerns of the sexual types involve issues of intimacy - for example, "to be intimate or not to be intimate" or "how to be intimate." The survival strategy is abstinence or promiscuity. The common theme statements reflect an inclination to define oneself in terms of the mate and the intimate relationship, such as " I am my intimate relationship, therefore, what does my relationship need?" "What am I? " "What do I mean to my special other?" "How connected am I to my intimates?" "How comfortably and successfully am I experiencing my relationship?" "How am I perceived by my intimate partner?"
The energy projected is described as "high energy" and is often experienced as "intense" and laser-like, appearing to be intently focused, and is usually playful and light, yet penetrating in nature. There is a sense of energy and vibration, the search for the mate, the need to display their strength and beauty, like the peacock showing its feathers. The sexual types will "sacrifice for the relationship" to insure connection. Rather than looking inward or to the group for security to "solve the problem," these types tend to "look to the mate," based upon a belief that "I cannot be whole unless I find my other half." "It is you and me against the world".
Your Instinctual Stacking: Intimate / Self-Preserving / Social
Personal Aide/Assistant, Valet, Model Person, Therapist, Animal Lover
Instinctual Type Stacking Points
Intimate: 33
Self-Preserving: 18
Social: 18
Self-Preserving
The self-preserving instinct is driven by the ongoing search for survival and well-being. Anything that could possibly damage, endanger, or exploit the self and/or the body is of concern. The focus of attention is subtly on "the self", "my body" and "my world." The primary desire is for survival which is manifested by a continual perceived quest for well being and for the "essentials" of life, such as: safety, security, food, shelter, comfort, protection, and resources. They tend to be maternal individuals that seek and offer or withhold nurturance.
The concerns of the self-preserving types involve issues of living and compromise - for example, "to be or not to be" or "how to be." The survival strategy places an intense emphasis on either caution or self-destruction. The focus is to aggressively go after what one needs and/or to defensively hold onto what one has. The common theme statements reflect the attention to "self," such as “I am my body, therefore, what does my body need?" "How am I?" "How comfortably and successfully am I experiencing my body?" "What are my immediate physical needs and desires?"
The energy projected is described as "conserved energy" and is often experienced as "grounded," as if it were tightly contained around the body like a spiral coil. The energy is usually somber, heavy, and serious in nature, as if the person is attempting to function while carrying some great weight on his or her shoulders, and is thus conserving energy for later personal use. The self-preserving types will "sacrifice for self" to insure survival. Rather than looking to the group or a mate to "solve problems," these types tend to "look inward" based upon an inherent recognition that "I'm on my own" and "I have to take care of myself."
Social
The social instinct is driven by the ongoing search for others, groups and community, akin to the herd instinct in animals, where there are safety and security in numbers. The focus of attention is on "my circle of friends", "the group" and "our greater world." The primary desire is for others or groups, which is manifested by an imbalanced perceived need for people, recognition, popularity, honor, status, position and social acceptance. They tend to be paternal individuals that seek and suggesting ways to cooperate with or rebel against social norms.
The concerns of the social types involve issues of relating - for example, "to relate or not to relate" or "how to relate." The survival strategy is an emphasis on sociability or unsociability. The common theme statements reflect an inclination to categorize oneself in terms of others, such as “I am my position with respect to others or society, therefore, what do I need to do to fit in?" "Who am I?" "Who should I be with?" "How comfortably and successfully am I experiencing my group?" "How am I perceived by the others or the group?"
The energy projected is described as "split energy" and is often experienced as "scattered" and projected outward, appearing personable, superficial, and cursory in nature. It is imperative that "a good impression is made" and that "nothing important is missed." The social types will "sacrifice for the group" to insure status. Rather than looking inward or to a mate for security and to "solve problems," these types tend to "look outward," based upon a belief that "my value is dependent upon how I am perceived by the group." "We can make it if we all cooperate and work together."
Sexual / Intimate
The sexual instinct is driven by the ongoing search for intimacy, pair bonding, connection and one-to-one relationships. The drive is especially representative of the masculine and feminine energies: the very qualities that determine the strongest and most desirable of mates. The focus of attention is on "the beloved", "my special friend" and "our intimate world." The primary desire is for a mate, which is manifested by an imbalanced perceived need for connection, wholeness, affinity, and closeness in a continual search for "the other half." They tend to be highly charged and charismatic individuals that seek and create or reject intimacy.
The concerns of the sexual types involve issues of intimacy - for example, "to be intimate or not to be intimate" or "how to be intimate." The survival strategy is abstinence or promiscuity. The common theme statements reflect an inclination to define oneself in terms of the mate and the intimate relationship, such as " I am my intimate relationship, therefore, what does my relationship need?" "What am I? " "What do I mean to my special other?" "How connected am I to my intimates?" "How comfortably and successfully am I experiencing my relationship?" "How am I perceived by my intimate partner?"
The energy projected is described as "high energy" and is often experienced as "intense" and laser-like, appearing to be intently focused, and is usually playful and light, yet penetrating in nature. There is a sense of energy and vibration, the search for the mate, the need to display their strength and beauty, like the peacock showing its feathers. The sexual types will "sacrifice for the relationship" to insure connection. Rather than looking inward or to the group for security to "solve the problem," these types tend to "look to the mate," based upon a belief that "I cannot be whole unless I find my other half." "It is you and me against the world".