Rut3_N3tt
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- Nov 18, 2024
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- MBTI Type
- ISxP
- Enneagram
- 952
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
Type me on anything !! mbti, enneagram, instictual variant, tritype, socionics mayhaps if this is enough information?!!!?? It's okay if there isn't :3. Feel free to ask me any questions !!!
Personal concepts
1. What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is when something is hard to not look at. When you can’t keep your eyes off of the thing that you find beauty in. Whether it’s a person, a place, or a thing, beauty is something that you absolutely cannot take your eyes off of. Love is a feeling that you feel when you want to take care of someone, do anything for them, and spend the rest of your life with them. Love is when you love someone despite their supposed flaws and imperfections.
2. What are your most important values?
My most important values are honesty, loyalty, equality, and kindness. I honestly loathe people who twist the truth, even if it helps another person feel better. I could see how it can be bad, but I still heavily prefer honesty and integrity. I don’t understand how people can be the opposite of equality. Like, what makes people of different races, sexualities, disabilities of any kind, gender preference, and religious/political preference (except Nazis and other bad ideologies that go against equality) so bad? They are human as well, just like any other people. I also don’t understand how people could be so rude and disrespectful. It doesn’t take much to be kind, so why is it so hard?
3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I don’t think I have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs. I’m more of a scientific sort of person, I need some sort of proof that the spiritual is real fr. I don’t believe in beliefs, at least religiously. Although I do respect all religions, I myself just don’t have any sort of connection to it. I was raised by alcoholic parents, but the grandparents on my mom’s side are very religious. I remember when I always had to follow my grandparents to church every Sunday when I lived with them for some time. I didn’t really like going to church, I’ve always thought that that sort of stuff isn’t for me. Now that I’m thinking about it, I think the only reason they took me with them to church is so that I wouldn’t be alone in the house because I was somewhere around 10/11.
4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
My opinion on war is just greedy people who want to have more power than they should. Like, why do you have the need to kill other innocent people just to have more land? I do believe that a country has to have an above average military, just in case some greedy bastard wants to take over their land. It also makes the country’s citizens feel more safe and secure. To me, power is the combination of military strength, governmental stability, and strong leaders. A country wouldn’t last very long without any of them, so that’s how I define power.
Interests
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
The only long conversation I have frequently with anyone is with my long distance gf. The most recent discussion we had was about our future together: making a family, having a stable job, pinpointing where to live, etc. I love talking to my gf about our future together, it’s so fun thinking of the possibilities we would have eventually. Oh I forgot to mention a friend I made on an app called SpaceHey, it’s basically like MySpace. I think their username was Case and we talk every other day. Our most recent conversation was about streamers and video games I think. Other than those two I haven’t really had a long conversation with anyone. I would say my interests are football (soccer), video games, tv shows and movies, listening to music, spending time with my long distance gf, and ig meeting new people on SpaceHey. I wouldn’t exactly say I’m a people person at ALL irl but online I like meeting new people. I don’t exactly know the reason why I’m so different online than in real life, but that’s just how I am :3. The football clubs I support are Chelsea, Blackburn Rovers, AS Roma, and Frankfurt. The reason why I got into football was because of the 2022 FIFA World Cup. I’ve always been interested in video games ever since I was a wee lad. I’ve noticed that I cater towards more strategic games, whether it’s strategic sports games or strategic turn-based games. I also love open-world games, an example is my favorite game of all time The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild. I absolutely LOVE the scenery in that game, it’s just so beautiful and ethereal. Another open-world game I really like is Fallout 4. I love the different paths you can choose, it’s honestly amazing. I would say that my favorite games of all time are the ones I mentioned earlier, Hogwarts Legacy, The Last Of Us, Batman: Arkham Knight, and Stray (I MIGHT be forgetting other games tho). I’ve stated in my introduction thread that I posted a few days ago talking about tv shows and movies, so I suggest you check it out if you want to :3, also with music on there too. My gf introduced me to SpaceHey, and it is really gewd. Although the occasional dry people, I have encountered some interesting people! Some of my notable friends I’ve made on there are Enzo, Kaylin, Mia and Case :3.
6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
I wouldn’t be opposed to it, but it would definitely not be my go to conversation topic. I more prefer on asking how a person’s day has been and/or what their interests are. I don’t really focus on my body too much, only when I’m moving or doing stuff. I also don’t pay much attention to my emotions that much. I don’t want to be seen as an emotional type of person, but it does come up once in a while. I would say that I don’t feel anything most of the time (when I’m not on call with my gf), not in like a bad way but more so a chill way. I’m the epitome of a lazy/laid back/chill person, I don’t really do much physically.
7. What do you think of daily chores?
I think of daily chores as a somewhat irritable and somewhat necessary thing to do. I wouldn’t mind doing the dishes, sweeping the floor, and doing the laundry. I think I like cleaning more spontaneously than in a fixed schedule. I’m way more of a messy person than a clean person, in terms of living spaces. When it gets to a point where it affects (idk if I’m using it correctly or if it’s effects) me directly then I’ll clean the thing.
8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
In my English class we as a class are reading Ada Blackjack. It’s a true story about a young Inuit woman who survives six months alone on a desolate, uninhabited Arctic island. I think we are currently on chapter 8. These four young men (I might be forgetting one): Knight, Galle, Stefansson, and Crawford, plus Ada, have moved into a new camp somewhere in northwest Alaska. A film I really like is Grave of the Fireflies, a Studio Ghibli film (and the only Studio Ghibli film I watched). The movie is set in Japan during the WWII bombings. A teenager named Seita takes care of his younger sister, Setsuko, after a separation with their parents. Another film I really liked was Hundreds of Beavers, a comedy/slapstick film. It’s really funny, probably the funniest movie I’ve watched. It’s about an applejack maker in a conflict with beavers, trying to win the hand of a merchant’s daughter.
9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
What makes me cry is when someone criticizes me harshly (tbh any kind of criticism) about anything. Another thing that makes me cry is being yelled at or if someone raises their voice at me, this is because my alcoholic parents used to yell at each other :3. Whenever tv show or movie characters cry that I’m emotionally connected to, I tend to cry a bit. I think that’s all. My gf’s beauty always, and I mean ALWAYS makes me smile hehe, they’re just so beautiful and gorgeous. Whenever someone or something is really silly I tend to smile.
10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
I think I tend to feel more towards one with the environment. I don’t really feel like I belong where I live, especially since my ancestor’s tradition had to do mainly outdoors, and I’m not really an outdoorsy person. I don’t follow my family’s traditional lifestyle (Inuit tradition btw) at ALL. I’m probably the exact opposite of it. Tradition aside, I really love the scenery of this place. It’s full of mountains and rivers, my two favorite landforms. I also quite like how desolate this place is. I feel like I’d prefer suburban places than rural or urban places.
Evaluation & Behaviour
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
I don’t really know if people see my weaknesses, or at least people haven’t old me. I think I do lack the abilities to learn visually and audibly (if that’s even a word)? I’m more of a hands-on learner. I also think one of my weaknesses is either being too stubborn in arguments or too withdrawn from arguments. I really like peace and harmony, but I don’t actively try to maintain it. I usually just avoid unharmonious places altogether. I just want everything to be right. I dislike my confidence when I’m wanting to make new friends, specifically in real life. I don’t know what I fear, it’s just too difficult for me. What makes it more difficult is that I live in a remote area, so I don’t have many people to socialize with that are around my age. I really, really would like to make irl friends, but I just don’t have enough confidence to initiate conversations with anyone. Another thing that I dislike about myself is that I physically CAN’T try new foods. It’s like my body doesn’t want to consume food other than peanut butter and ritz
. I really, really want to try new foods, but my body just rejects it.
12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
I’m not really around people irl, just only at school. My classmates see me as a quite intelligent person, although I don’t think it’s entirely true. I guess I’m the definition of school smart. Outside of school, I don’t think I’d be really intelligent. I think that’s the only thing that people have told me irl, at least to my knowledge. One thing I like about myself is my hair. I’ve been growing it out since 2020 and it has reached around my mid to low back area. I’ve also been told by other people that they really like my mustache :3. Whenever I brush my hair it gets really staticky and poofy. I don’t really know what else I like about myself. It’s not that I’m a pessimist or anything, it’s just that I generally don’t know what I like about myself. I’d say I’m way more of an optimist than a pessimist, which you could say that I like that about myself.
13. In what areas of your life would you like help?
The only thing I think that I need help in is trying new foods. It’s gotten to the point where I only eat the same thing every day. The only “food” I’ve tried recently was literally ketchup that my long distance girlfriend encouraged me to try, and that was months ago! I didn’t like it very much, considering I only had it by itself and not with anything else. Although I do think, with my gf’s encouragement, I could become more confident in trying new foods. Like, my brain is telling me that I really, REALLY want to try new foods, but my body just convinces me that it’ll be bad and a waste of time.
14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
I don’t think I ever get stuck in a rut. I’m quite fond of routine and repetitive stuff. I wouldn’t mind doing new things here and there, but I’d much rather be “stuck in a rut”. Even though I just said I wouldn’t mind trying new things, I still don’t like trying new stuff really. I’m not at all a thrill-seeking type of person, or a novelty type of person as well. I think trying to learn new things would just tire me out, and I don’t like being tired out. I’d much rather stick to things that I already know and just relax.
People & Interactions
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
The qualities I like the most in other people are politeness, silliness (able to joke around), and lightheartedness. I like people who are friendly, respectful, and who continue to talk to me even though I’m quiet. I do like it when people talk to me (most of the time) despite me not being as talkative as them. I don’t understand people who are just completely disrespectful, I absolutely cannot fathom it. It’s not that hard to be nice to a stranger. The qualities that I don’t like in a person are disrespectful, aggressive, and argumentative. The things I always want in my life are peace and harmony. I don’t really know the types of my online friends, so I don’t really know what type I get along with the best. My long distance girlfriend (my future wife hehe) is an ENTP 7w6, and they’re quite silly and funny. I think my online best friend is an ISTP (I don’t know about their enneagram type), I don’t remember it well though. I think I can get along with pretty much anyone tbh (might be a bit more difficult with aggressive or argumentative people tho).
16. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
I feel that romance should ONLY be between two people. I do not believe or condone any sort of polyamorous relationship. I also think cheating is probably the most horrible thing you could do to someone. It doesn’t matter if it’s just a one time thing, cheating is cheating, period. The psychological effects of cheating is so damaging. Again, same thing with sex. I wouldn’t care so much if single people just mingled around a bit with other single people, but at least use protection. My long distance girlfriend is basically the qualities I would want in a partner. Silliness, intellectual, and yappiness. They could go on and on talking about their favorite obsession, the arctic. Absolutely nothing would stop them from yapping about the arctic. I just have to mention how beautiful and gorgeous my gf is. They are the epitome of the word beauty.
17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
If I was raising a child with my future wife aka my long distance gf, my main concern would be not exposing them to the internet until like 12, teaching them kindness and honesty, and teaching them good manners. Exposing your child to the internet can be both good and bad, and both me and my gf have had usually negative interactions with the internet. I do not want our future child/children to be exposed negatively to the internet, that’s the reason my gf and I are waiting until our future children turn around the age of 12 to have access to the internet. I hate how some parents don’t teach their children any kind of respect, kindness, or manners, it absolutely appalls me. What’s so hard about teaching your kid to say “thank you” after someone gives them something?
18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
I don’t think it would change very much, I’d still be their friend honestly. Inwardly I would be open-minded and respect their opinion. Outwardly I think I would just nod along with them and do ocassional mhm’s and interesting’s. I don’t really care so much if a different person’s opinion is very different from mine. I don’t really get why people only surround themselves with people with the same beliefs as them. Yeah sure it’s easier to become friends with them, but why not venture out and find people who have different opinions than yours? It helps you build understanding and more open-mindedness.
19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
I would describe my relationship to society (at least where I live) as knowing each other exists. Like I’m not very engaging in my society (again where I live/my community) and/or traditions to my community. To the whole entire world I’d say I want to explore every bit of it. I don’t know why, but I really want to explore Africa especially. This desire came out of nowhere. Personally, I see people as naturally trustable and having good intentions. I always try to see the good in most people. One prevalent social problem is definitely some people thinking that the LGBTQ+ is bad. I’m all for LGBTQ+ rights. I even have a few close trans friends, in fact my online best friend is transmasc.
20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I don’t really have irl friends that much, but I do have online friends. I don’t really have a specific way to choose my online friends, as long as they aren’t dry or respond with low enthusiasm. I could get along with pretty much anyone internet wise. Irl is a completely different story. I think the only reason it’s different from online is because I have time to think about my response online when irl I don’t have that much time. I usually behave very straightforward and friendly online, I also ask questions about themselves. Irl I’m very much silent and reserved.
21. How do you behave around strangers?
As I’ve said above, I’m usually very quiet and reserved. I wouldn’t say I’m shy or uncomfortable around strangers, but I definitely don’t talk or initiate conversation first. I would typically be on my phone or looking in the distance, thinking about my beautiful and gorgeous girlfriend.
Personal concepts
1. What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is when something is hard to not look at. When you can’t keep your eyes off of the thing that you find beauty in. Whether it’s a person, a place, or a thing, beauty is something that you absolutely cannot take your eyes off of. Love is a feeling that you feel when you want to take care of someone, do anything for them, and spend the rest of your life with them. Love is when you love someone despite their supposed flaws and imperfections.
2. What are your most important values?
My most important values are honesty, loyalty, equality, and kindness. I honestly loathe people who twist the truth, even if it helps another person feel better. I could see how it can be bad, but I still heavily prefer honesty and integrity. I don’t understand how people can be the opposite of equality. Like, what makes people of different races, sexualities, disabilities of any kind, gender preference, and religious/political preference (except Nazis and other bad ideologies that go against equality) so bad? They are human as well, just like any other people. I also don’t understand how people could be so rude and disrespectful. It doesn’t take much to be kind, so why is it so hard?
3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I don’t think I have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs. I’m more of a scientific sort of person, I need some sort of proof that the spiritual is real fr. I don’t believe in beliefs, at least religiously. Although I do respect all religions, I myself just don’t have any sort of connection to it. I was raised by alcoholic parents, but the grandparents on my mom’s side are very religious. I remember when I always had to follow my grandparents to church every Sunday when I lived with them for some time. I didn’t really like going to church, I’ve always thought that that sort of stuff isn’t for me. Now that I’m thinking about it, I think the only reason they took me with them to church is so that I wouldn’t be alone in the house because I was somewhere around 10/11.
4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
My opinion on war is just greedy people who want to have more power than they should. Like, why do you have the need to kill other innocent people just to have more land? I do believe that a country has to have an above average military, just in case some greedy bastard wants to take over their land. It also makes the country’s citizens feel more safe and secure. To me, power is the combination of military strength, governmental stability, and strong leaders. A country wouldn’t last very long without any of them, so that’s how I define power.
Interests
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
The only long conversation I have frequently with anyone is with my long distance gf. The most recent discussion we had was about our future together: making a family, having a stable job, pinpointing where to live, etc. I love talking to my gf about our future together, it’s so fun thinking of the possibilities we would have eventually. Oh I forgot to mention a friend I made on an app called SpaceHey, it’s basically like MySpace. I think their username was Case and we talk every other day. Our most recent conversation was about streamers and video games I think. Other than those two I haven’t really had a long conversation with anyone. I would say my interests are football (soccer), video games, tv shows and movies, listening to music, spending time with my long distance gf, and ig meeting new people on SpaceHey. I wouldn’t exactly say I’m a people person at ALL irl but online I like meeting new people. I don’t exactly know the reason why I’m so different online than in real life, but that’s just how I am :3. The football clubs I support are Chelsea, Blackburn Rovers, AS Roma, and Frankfurt. The reason why I got into football was because of the 2022 FIFA World Cup. I’ve always been interested in video games ever since I was a wee lad. I’ve noticed that I cater towards more strategic games, whether it’s strategic sports games or strategic turn-based games. I also love open-world games, an example is my favorite game of all time The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild. I absolutely LOVE the scenery in that game, it’s just so beautiful and ethereal. Another open-world game I really like is Fallout 4. I love the different paths you can choose, it’s honestly amazing. I would say that my favorite games of all time are the ones I mentioned earlier, Hogwarts Legacy, The Last Of Us, Batman: Arkham Knight, and Stray (I MIGHT be forgetting other games tho). I’ve stated in my introduction thread that I posted a few days ago talking about tv shows and movies, so I suggest you check it out if you want to :3, also with music on there too. My gf introduced me to SpaceHey, and it is really gewd. Although the occasional dry people, I have encountered some interesting people! Some of my notable friends I’ve made on there are Enzo, Kaylin, Mia and Case :3.
6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
I wouldn’t be opposed to it, but it would definitely not be my go to conversation topic. I more prefer on asking how a person’s day has been and/or what their interests are. I don’t really focus on my body too much, only when I’m moving or doing stuff. I also don’t pay much attention to my emotions that much. I don’t want to be seen as an emotional type of person, but it does come up once in a while. I would say that I don’t feel anything most of the time (when I’m not on call with my gf), not in like a bad way but more so a chill way. I’m the epitome of a lazy/laid back/chill person, I don’t really do much physically.
7. What do you think of daily chores?
I think of daily chores as a somewhat irritable and somewhat necessary thing to do. I wouldn’t mind doing the dishes, sweeping the floor, and doing the laundry. I think I like cleaning more spontaneously than in a fixed schedule. I’m way more of a messy person than a clean person, in terms of living spaces. When it gets to a point where it affects (idk if I’m using it correctly or if it’s effects) me directly then I’ll clean the thing.
8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
In my English class we as a class are reading Ada Blackjack. It’s a true story about a young Inuit woman who survives six months alone on a desolate, uninhabited Arctic island. I think we are currently on chapter 8. These four young men (I might be forgetting one): Knight, Galle, Stefansson, and Crawford, plus Ada, have moved into a new camp somewhere in northwest Alaska. A film I really like is Grave of the Fireflies, a Studio Ghibli film (and the only Studio Ghibli film I watched). The movie is set in Japan during the WWII bombings. A teenager named Seita takes care of his younger sister, Setsuko, after a separation with their parents. Another film I really liked was Hundreds of Beavers, a comedy/slapstick film. It’s really funny, probably the funniest movie I’ve watched. It’s about an applejack maker in a conflict with beavers, trying to win the hand of a merchant’s daughter.
9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
What makes me cry is when someone criticizes me harshly (tbh any kind of criticism) about anything. Another thing that makes me cry is being yelled at or if someone raises their voice at me, this is because my alcoholic parents used to yell at each other :3. Whenever tv show or movie characters cry that I’m emotionally connected to, I tend to cry a bit. I think that’s all. My gf’s beauty always, and I mean ALWAYS makes me smile hehe, they’re just so beautiful and gorgeous. Whenever someone or something is really silly I tend to smile.
10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
I think I tend to feel more towards one with the environment. I don’t really feel like I belong where I live, especially since my ancestor’s tradition had to do mainly outdoors, and I’m not really an outdoorsy person. I don’t follow my family’s traditional lifestyle (Inuit tradition btw) at ALL. I’m probably the exact opposite of it. Tradition aside, I really love the scenery of this place. It’s full of mountains and rivers, my two favorite landforms. I also quite like how desolate this place is. I feel like I’d prefer suburban places than rural or urban places.
Evaluation & Behaviour
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
I don’t really know if people see my weaknesses, or at least people haven’t old me. I think I do lack the abilities to learn visually and audibly (if that’s even a word)? I’m more of a hands-on learner. I also think one of my weaknesses is either being too stubborn in arguments or too withdrawn from arguments. I really like peace and harmony, but I don’t actively try to maintain it. I usually just avoid unharmonious places altogether. I just want everything to be right. I dislike my confidence when I’m wanting to make new friends, specifically in real life. I don’t know what I fear, it’s just too difficult for me. What makes it more difficult is that I live in a remote area, so I don’t have many people to socialize with that are around my age. I really, really would like to make irl friends, but I just don’t have enough confidence to initiate conversations with anyone. Another thing that I dislike about myself is that I physically CAN’T try new foods. It’s like my body doesn’t want to consume food other than peanut butter and ritz
. I really, really want to try new foods, but my body just rejects it. 12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
I’m not really around people irl, just only at school. My classmates see me as a quite intelligent person, although I don’t think it’s entirely true. I guess I’m the definition of school smart. Outside of school, I don’t think I’d be really intelligent. I think that’s the only thing that people have told me irl, at least to my knowledge. One thing I like about myself is my hair. I’ve been growing it out since 2020 and it has reached around my mid to low back area. I’ve also been told by other people that they really like my mustache :3. Whenever I brush my hair it gets really staticky and poofy. I don’t really know what else I like about myself. It’s not that I’m a pessimist or anything, it’s just that I generally don’t know what I like about myself. I’d say I’m way more of an optimist than a pessimist, which you could say that I like that about myself.
13. In what areas of your life would you like help?
The only thing I think that I need help in is trying new foods. It’s gotten to the point where I only eat the same thing every day. The only “food” I’ve tried recently was literally ketchup that my long distance girlfriend encouraged me to try, and that was months ago! I didn’t like it very much, considering I only had it by itself and not with anything else. Although I do think, with my gf’s encouragement, I could become more confident in trying new foods. Like, my brain is telling me that I really, REALLY want to try new foods, but my body just convinces me that it’ll be bad and a waste of time.
14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
I don’t think I ever get stuck in a rut. I’m quite fond of routine and repetitive stuff. I wouldn’t mind doing new things here and there, but I’d much rather be “stuck in a rut”. Even though I just said I wouldn’t mind trying new things, I still don’t like trying new stuff really. I’m not at all a thrill-seeking type of person, or a novelty type of person as well. I think trying to learn new things would just tire me out, and I don’t like being tired out. I’d much rather stick to things that I already know and just relax.
People & Interactions
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
The qualities I like the most in other people are politeness, silliness (able to joke around), and lightheartedness. I like people who are friendly, respectful, and who continue to talk to me even though I’m quiet. I do like it when people talk to me (most of the time) despite me not being as talkative as them. I don’t understand people who are just completely disrespectful, I absolutely cannot fathom it. It’s not that hard to be nice to a stranger. The qualities that I don’t like in a person are disrespectful, aggressive, and argumentative. The things I always want in my life are peace and harmony. I don’t really know the types of my online friends, so I don’t really know what type I get along with the best. My long distance girlfriend (my future wife hehe) is an ENTP 7w6, and they’re quite silly and funny. I think my online best friend is an ISTP (I don’t know about their enneagram type), I don’t remember it well though. I think I can get along with pretty much anyone tbh (might be a bit more difficult with aggressive or argumentative people tho).
16. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
I feel that romance should ONLY be between two people. I do not believe or condone any sort of polyamorous relationship. I also think cheating is probably the most horrible thing you could do to someone. It doesn’t matter if it’s just a one time thing, cheating is cheating, period. The psychological effects of cheating is so damaging. Again, same thing with sex. I wouldn’t care so much if single people just mingled around a bit with other single people, but at least use protection. My long distance girlfriend is basically the qualities I would want in a partner. Silliness, intellectual, and yappiness. They could go on and on talking about their favorite obsession, the arctic. Absolutely nothing would stop them from yapping about the arctic. I just have to mention how beautiful and gorgeous my gf is. They are the epitome of the word beauty.
17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
If I was raising a child with my future wife aka my long distance gf, my main concern would be not exposing them to the internet until like 12, teaching them kindness and honesty, and teaching them good manners. Exposing your child to the internet can be both good and bad, and both me and my gf have had usually negative interactions with the internet. I do not want our future child/children to be exposed negatively to the internet, that’s the reason my gf and I are waiting until our future children turn around the age of 12 to have access to the internet. I hate how some parents don’t teach their children any kind of respect, kindness, or manners, it absolutely appalls me. What’s so hard about teaching your kid to say “thank you” after someone gives them something?
18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
I don’t think it would change very much, I’d still be their friend honestly. Inwardly I would be open-minded and respect their opinion. Outwardly I think I would just nod along with them and do ocassional mhm’s and interesting’s. I don’t really care so much if a different person’s opinion is very different from mine. I don’t really get why people only surround themselves with people with the same beliefs as them. Yeah sure it’s easier to become friends with them, but why not venture out and find people who have different opinions than yours? It helps you build understanding and more open-mindedness.
19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
I would describe my relationship to society (at least where I live) as knowing each other exists. Like I’m not very engaging in my society (again where I live/my community) and/or traditions to my community. To the whole entire world I’d say I want to explore every bit of it. I don’t know why, but I really want to explore Africa especially. This desire came out of nowhere. Personally, I see people as naturally trustable and having good intentions. I always try to see the good in most people. One prevalent social problem is definitely some people thinking that the LGBTQ+ is bad. I’m all for LGBTQ+ rights. I even have a few close trans friends, in fact my online best friend is transmasc.
20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I don’t really have irl friends that much, but I do have online friends. I don’t really have a specific way to choose my online friends, as long as they aren’t dry or respond with low enthusiasm. I could get along with pretty much anyone internet wise. Irl is a completely different story. I think the only reason it’s different from online is because I have time to think about my response online when irl I don’t have that much time. I usually behave very straightforward and friendly online, I also ask questions about themselves. Irl I’m very much silent and reserved.
21. How do you behave around strangers?
As I’ve said above, I’m usually very quiet and reserved. I wouldn’t say I’m shy or uncomfortable around strangers, but I definitely don’t talk or initiate conversation first. I would typically be on my phone or looking in the distance, thinking about my beautiful and gorgeous girlfriend.
