You hug your pillow or wrap yourself up in a blanket cocoon while sleeping alone because the feeling of being cuddled comforts you.
Feeling that exhilarating feeling of having that "click" with someone.
Meeting a cute person and spending the rest of the day having romantic fantasies about them (even if you know you'll never see them again)
Having to restrain yourself from becoming obsessed with someone/something (and failing)
Weirding people out with your deep, probing questions. I'm not trying to be creepy, I swear! I genuinely just want to know you better. ;_;
OP Intermission...
You know you're an sx-dom when so-doms make you feel like you're not quite housebroken.
hahahaha.. oh... PLEASE elaborate on this one! I'm SX/SP and I'm OBSESSED for the last 6 months with a SOC/SP. We text allll the time, about music. And from the texts I SWEAR there's something there.. and then in person there's nothing. I don't know if he's just trying REALLY hard to not get involved.. or if I"m making the whole thing up. Seriously. Please to elaborate!
Is he enneagram 9?
Maybe he is just SO/SP.
Many may find me intereresting online and then realize that I am actually "cold as ice". (especially Sx people)
People often confuse being an sx dominant with having a high libido. While sex can play a role, it's intimacy and deep connection that sx doms crave. This is why relationships between two sx doms can be mind blowing.
- When you were just going out to get some milk at the grocery store and you suddenly find yourself spearheading a revolution
- When everyone within a 5 feet radius from you can only communicate through pleasurable groans and screams because your mere presence is making them cum so hard
- When you avoid doing anything you like, because you know if you let out that intensely burning white flame of passion within, you'll literally combust and die an excruciating death being swallowed by the flames of your fervor
That post is almost exactly 4 years old! Finally it gets the recognition it deserves.Best post of 2018 thus far.