[MBTI General] MBTI Relationship Compatibility Chart (Simplified)

[Luke O]

It's far too generalised. Besides, ENTJ being an ideal match for me? We would probably have an argument every day. How is that ideal?

 

[violet_crown]

Quadruple or nothing it's an ENTJ posing as an INTP in order to boost the perceived approval of ENTJs in an obvious bid for more minions.

Minions are more of an ENFJ thing. We're more of a "if you want something done, do it yourself" type mentality, by and large.

Also, someone who is interested me because of perceived popularity as opposed to whatever my individual merits might be, is probably not gonna make that select 10% group.

It's far too generalised. Besides, ENTJ being an ideal match for me? We would probably have an argument every day. How is that ideal?

One of my closest friends is an INTP guy that I dated a while back. The ease of communication and flow of ideas between us is probably the reason he's one of the only exes I was able to be friends with after the fact. I literally spend most of the day at work shooting the shit with him on gchat.

As with any pairing, it depends on the ENTJ and it depends on the INTP. If both are pretty secure, than it's actually a better pairing in my experience than IFPs are for us as the fundamental concerns tend to be the same, even if the approach is different. I tend to prefer T's over F's in general, though, just because I feel there's a level of accommodation required in T/F relationships (especially if the F is the guy) that I'm just not willing to do at this point.

Also, what INTP doesn't enjoy arguing?

 

[á´…eparted]

Minions are more of an ENFJ thing. We're more of a "if you want something done, do it yourself" type mentality, by and large.

Also, someone who is interested me because of perceived popularity as opposed to whatever my individual merits might be, is probably not gonna make that select 10% group.

I don't think we're big on minions. At least, based on what that word implies. People we organize and direct as needed? Definitely. That happens naturally.

 

[Opal]

Minions are more of an ENFJ thing. We're more of a "if you want something done, do it yourself" type mentality, by and large.

Also, someone who is interested me because of perceived popularity as opposed to whatever my individual merits might be, is probably not gonna make that select 10% group.

Wha? All ENTJs are CEOs, and CEOs are all about minions.

 

[violet_crown]

Wha? All ENTJs are CEOs, and CEOs are all about minions.

Are you looking for an honest response here or for me to assume sort of caricature for you?

I don't think we're big on minions. At least, based on what that word implies. People we organize and direct as needed? Definitely. That happens naturally.

I'd prefer to seek out other A-players, not lackeys.

 

[BadOctopus]

I think the fact that this chart pairs ISFPs with ENFJs says it all. I can't think of a more ill-suited pairing.

 

[chubber]

Something to think about before you go jumping into a relationship:

So why does the NTs not have the "uh oh, think this one through" section at all? Are we just willing to bend over?

 

[á´…eparted]

I think the fact that this chart pairs ISFPs with ENFJs says it all. I can't think of a more ill-suited pairing.

I could see it maybe working. Ultimately though... we'd likely kill each other. One of my best friends in high school is an ISFP, but we've since drifted apart.

 

[great_bay]

Where exactly is the source for this chart? Did you poll people and ask for satisfactory rate?

 

[pinkgraffiti]

ouch i don't see how that Fi of ISFP can go with ENFJ's Fe. anyway, i don't see a pattern in that chart, so: is there any logic to this? what is this based on?

 

[Luke O]

Minions are more of an ENFJ thing. We're more of a "if you want something done, do it yourself" type mentality, by and large.

Also, someone who is interested me because of perceived popularity as opposed to whatever my individual merits might be, is probably not gonna make that select 10% group.



One of my closest friends is an INTP guy that I dated a while back. The ease of communication and flow of ideas between us is probably the reason he's one of the only exes I was able to be friends with after the fact. I literally spend most of the day at work shooting the shit with him on gchat.

As with any pairing, it depends on the ENTJ and it depends on the INTP. If both are pretty secure, than it's actually a better pairing in my experience than IFPs are for us as the fundamental concerns tend to be the same, even if the approach is different. I tend to prefer T's over F's in general, though, just because I feel there's a level of accommodation required in T/F relationships (especially if the F is the guy) that I'm just not willing to do at this point.

Also, what INTP doesn't enjoy arguing?

I can't argue with that...

 

[Opal]

Are you looking for an honest response here or for me to assume sort of caricature for you?

I'm looking for the truth in a system that is fundamentally untrue.

 

[Julius_Van_Der_Beak]

Something to think about before you go jumping into a relationship:

Everybody's gotta learn sometime.

So why does the NTs not have the "uh oh, think this one through" section at all? Are we just willing to bend over?

It's because we're speshul.

 

[BadOctopus]

So why does the NTs not have the "uh oh, think this one through" section at all? Are we just willing to bend over?

It's because everyone loves us. (The poor schmucks.)

 

[Julius_Van_Der_Beak]

It's because everyone loves us. (The poor schmucks.)

Why not? We invented rainbows.

Pretty sure Roy G. Biv was an NT.

 

[violet_crown]

I'm looking for the truth in a system that is fundamentally untrue.

If that's your goal, then I would begin with a line of inquiry that was a bit more genuine in its own right.

 

[Opal]

If that's your goal, then I would begin with a line of inquiry that was a bit more genuine in its own right.

Eh, I'm mostly playing around now, sorry. The chart is fun to think about, but the data is questionable, and so is the MBTI framework, so this is really an exercise in rhetoric.

 

[chubber]

It's because everyone loves us. (The poor schmucks.)

or maybe we are just miserable and are ok being miserable with other miserable people.

edit: I've always wondered why the NTs accommodate other types way too much, compared to how they accommodate us. This maybe confirms that, we're always trying to solve them, and changing for them.

Realising that all over again, makes me...

 

[chubber]

Yeah, that's weird that the NFs are allegedly incompatible with all of the Sensing types. Are NFs really that unaccommodating? I doubt it.

Yes, they don't like Se in general and their own Si.

In my estimation, 'isn't that the NF is unaccommodating (non-roomy-"dating"?? )...it's that they are "head-in-the-clouds" or flaky space cadets, which drives the immediate-sensation-types *crazy*.
And some NFs tend to get deep feelings hurt and not communicate it well...Scylla and Charybdis.

Just my 0.02 worth; only not even that, because I'm offering it for free. And you get what you pay for...

ENFP and INTJ

INTJ becomes depressed, turns into the ESFP (shadow). ENFP hates ESFP, turns into ISTJ (shadow). ESFP loves ISTJ all over again, because ISTJ grounds the ESFP. Both snaps back into INTJ and ENFP. They are perfect for each other.

 

[Lexicon]

So why does the NTs not have the "uh oh, think this one through" section at all? Are we just willing to bend over?

This chart is cute nonsense, nothing more.

That being said & outta the way - I'll assume perhaps none of the NTJs have a red section because relationships not working out are often perceived as a "failure" on the part of the NTJ. And admitting failure is tough. They're also pretty tenacious/stubborn. It's endearing how much they think they can control in this world.

*pets all the NTJs on the head*

ENTPs don't have a red section because they're obviously the most amazing shit ever. Didn't you know? How do you not know this?


INTPs probably lack a red section because they'll just let their partner make all the serious life decisions most of the time. This means they're basically comfy furniture once they love you. Some also seem to have a thing for getting bossed around by their partners.


Fe Disclaimer: Not taking this chart seriously at all.