Sexual Primary / Social Support
"The Sensual Player"
Expression: intense, outer-focused
Energy: intense energy expressed outwards, assertively
Behavior: intense, assertive, sultry and aggressive
Mindset: "If I can maintain position and inclusion in the group/world, I can keep up and escalate all this merging/intensity."
Examples: Gwen Stefani
Social Primary / Sexual Support
"The Intense Appealer"
Expression: bright smiley, intense expression
Energy: outward energy expressed intensely, broadly
Behavior: bright, smiley, erratic and scattered
Mindset: "If I can get close to people with merging/intensity, I can make sure of and keep improving my position and inclusion in the group/world."
Examples: Paige Davis (Trading Spaces), Tom Cruise
Sexual Primary / Self-Preservation Support
"One-Man Storm"
Expression: intense, self-absorbed expression
Energy: intense energy expressed calmly, steadily, assertively
Behavior: intense, assertive, troubled and self absorbed
Mindset: "If I can make (us) have an orderly & pleasing lifestyle, I can keep up and escalate all this merging/intensity."
Examples: Harlock (Arcadia of my Youth)
Self-Preservation Primary / Sexual Support
"Beautiful Dreamer"
Expression: wistful self-absorbed expression, sighing, magic is in their head
Energy: calm, steady energy expressed intensely, withdrawing
Behavior: withdrawn, calm, wistful and self absorbed
Mindset: "I can have merging/intensity without having to leave my orderly & pleasing lifestyle." (imagination, safe people and relationships, when the safety of these are challenged they withdraw)
Examples: Alanis Morisette, Amelie (Amelie)
Social Primary / Self-Preservation Support
"The Collected Engage-er"
Expression: bright smiley, calm expression
Energy: outward energy expressed calmly, steadily, broadly (more flow and steady energy to their engaging and less jerkiness, gushiness, or over-the-topness like the so/sx)
Behavior: bright, smiley, calm and thoughtful
Mindset: "If I can establish an orderly and pleasing lifestyle, I can make sure of and keep improving my position and inclusion in the group/world."
Examples: Hilary Clinton, Ellen Degeneres
Self-Preservation Primary / Social Support
"The Withdrawn Submissive"
Expression: withdrawn calm, smiley expression
Energy: calm, steady energy expressed outward
Behavior: withdrawn, calm, smiley and submissive
Mindset: "If I can maintain position and inclusion in the group/world, I can make sure of and keep my orderly and pleasing lifestyle." (May try to be just appealing and connected with groups enough for everyone to get out of their hair.)
Examples: Raymond (Everybody Loves Raymond)
Unfortunately it seems pretty much all type stacking descriptions are lacking in some respects. The one you posted is very good because it doesn't get too specific. I think most tend to be written sloppily, without a wide enough range of people in mind. Although its possible that within such descriptions, that particular stackings are more correct than others and some valuable nugget of information might be gained - hence why I posted it.Alanis Morisette is Sx/So, and I found that article too much cliché globally. Thanks for your comment though.
The Sexual Stackings
sx/sp
This is perhaps the most internally conflicted of the stackings, and potentially the most inconsistent in behavior. This may occur as a blockage of the sexual instinct which can be redirected as a more generally brooding and troubled personality. They may isolate themselves for long periods of time before reemerging. They live according to a strictly personal outlook and are not particularly concerned with the approval of others outside of their immediate concern. They seem to be searching for something, the missing piece. If they find a soulmate they will unite without fanfare, forming a secret bond, dealing with formalities as an afterthought. Powerful sexual impulses facing inner resistance may manifest symbolically in the psyche, giving way to soulful interpretations of the unconscious. Under periods of stress severe sexual tensions may manifest as erratic, impulsively destructive behavior. Can seem restless, torn between the comforts of a stable home life and the urge to wander. May be prone to self-medicating.
Motivation: to know the heart, reconcile inner conflict, form a secure union.
Familiar roles: the devotee, the seeker, the wanderer
Examples of sx/sp: Prince, Carl Jung, Johnny Depp, Ozzy Osbourne, Johnny Cash, Joan Crawford, Princess Di, Marilyn Monroe, Janis Joplin, Frollo from "Hunchback of Notre Dame"
Courtesy of [MENTION=6214]The Outsider[/MENTION]
He mentioned this marvelous reference of the instinctual stacking upon every enneagram type. That means a good different 54 profiles to read through! Hoorah!
Type 1s: http://www.ocean-moonshine.net/e142...er_op=view_page&PAGE_id=14&MMN_position=81:80
Type 2s: http://www.ocean-moonshine.net/e142...er_op=view_page&PAGE_id=15&MMN_position=82:80
Type 3s: http://www.ocean-moonshine.net/e142...er_op=view_page&PAGE_id=20&MMN_position=83:80
Type 4s: http://www.ocean-moonshine.net/e142...er_op=view_page&PAGE_id=26&MMN_position=84:80
Type 5s: http://www.ocean-moonshine.net/e142...er_op=view_page&PAGE_id=33&MMN_position=86:80
Type 6s: http://www.ocean-moonshine.net/e142...er_op=view_page&PAGE_id=34&MMN_position=87:80
Type 7s: http://www.ocean-moonshine.net/e142...er_op=view_page&PAGE_id=35&MMN_position=88:80
Type 8s: http://www.ocean-moonshine.net/e142...er_op=view_page&PAGE_id=40&MMN_position=89:80
Type 9s: http://www.ocean-moonshine.net/e142...er_op=view_page&PAGE_id=41&MMN_position=90:80
Unfortunately it seems pretty much all type stacking descriptions are lacking in some respects. The one you posted is very good because it doesn't get too specific. I think most tend to be written sloppily, without a wide enough range of people in mind. Although its possible that within such descriptions, that particular stackings are more correct than others and some valuable nugget of information might be gained - hence why I posted it.
The one Chana posted is the most readily available one, but I personally find it particularly alienating in its description of my type (so/sp). Listing Bill O'Reilly and Rush Limbaugh as examples is extremely off-putting to me. And the fact all but one are hard-nosed figures in the realm of politics (although one, a former movie star), and that all but one are very politically conservative is just plain ridiculous. I mean do they really intend to suggest so/sps are like that?If so, I'm certainly not a so/sp because I'm neither conservative or hard-nosed.
The one Chana posted is the most readily available one, but I personally find it particularly alienating in its description of my type (so/sp). Listing Bill O'Reilly and Rush Limbaugh as examples is extremely off-putting to me. And the fact all but one are hard-nosed figures in the realm of politics (although one, a former movie star), and that all but one are very politically conservative is just plain ridiculous. I mean do they really intend to suggest so/sps are like that?If so, I'm certainly not a so/sp because I'm neither conservative or hard-nosed.
Don't forget Hitler.I have the same issues with 6w5 examples. I mean, Richard Nixon? Jerry Falwell? John Hinckley Jr.?! Yeah, I totally want to be the same type as them!
/rant
Don't forget Hitler.
Hitler was a misunderstood artist. What is so bad about that?Don't forget Hitler.
Don't forget Hitler.
sp/soc: The most straightfoward in language, with relatively little trills and embellishments. Points made directly and from personal experience. Business-like. Clear. Cynical. Lacking in internal experience compared to other stackings.
sp/sx: Comes out as somewhat heavy and gloomy, or cool and detached. Often gives out a suffocating and insular vibe, as if their internal world is wrapped around by an impermeable membrane. Strong sensory impressions designed to awake sexuality. Makes one want to linger on one or two lines forever.
soc/sp: Tangential. Lots of details and analysis. Very in-their-head and intellectual, and lacks sensuality. Comes across as level-headed and unspontaneous, but also with personal warmth. Their written works often require a great deal of mental concentration from the readers.
soc/sx: The word "fantastical" comes to mind. Lots of virtuosity and trills, and often removed from the real world. One is whirled away by the dazzling fairies of their colorful imagination. Can be too rich in imagery for their own good. Sustained dramatic power due to their knowledge of interpersonal dynamics.
sx/sp: Intense, often a stab-in-the-chest sensation, leaving me in tears without knowing why. Fantastical but much more concentrated in a few inner images. Can be abstract, animating dead objects into their field of contemplation. Embodiment of another human, thing, or idea is common in their writings.
sx/soc: My impression of their writing is "fire-and-ice", as if one is to experience the extremes of heat and coldness at the same time. Often abstract, spilling one inner vision after another like a dream-sequence. Seems particularly in touch with the core meaning of life and death.
There's that, and also that he initiated one of the greatest genocides in history. And he was a terribly mediocre painter.Hitler was a misunderstood artist. What is so bad about that?
Is that about writing style?
I have the same issues with 6w5 examples. I mean, Richard Nixon? Jerry Falwell? John Hinckley Jr.?! Yeah, I totally want to be the same type as them!
/rant
Hitler was a misunderstood artist. What is so bad about that?
Is that about writing style?
you forgot 50 CentThere's also James Hetfield from Metallica, Sandra bernhard, Tupac, Charles Bukowski, Kristen Stewart, Joe Strummer, Lou Reed, Michelle Pfeiffer, Ellen Page, Robert Redford, Chuck Norris, Steve MacQueen, Dennis Hoper, ... Most part of 6w5 have nothing to do with Nixon, the example you have are all from the Sp/So variant.
Elsewhere, you seem a way too mellow to be 6w5 in my opinion, I really feel you more as a 9.
Hitler was the first rock star!
Writing style and general impression they release.