[MBTI General] Most Submissive MBTI Type ?

[JClassic]

You sound so delightful. I can't imagine what her problem is.

Lol

 

[JClassic]

I can be extremely submissive. But tend to choose relationships where I'm the dominant one, I tend to be quite controlling and manipulative, unfortunately...

That can do with your level of machiavellianism.

But you probally don't like to be in control, you just are afraid of being over dominanted by someone so prefer to control it.

 

[Samvega]

Very interesting. So the best submissive women are the ones to chose to be submissive and let go like the ENTJ, INTP, INTJ and ENTP. In your experience though the ISFJ and INFP are the most inherently submissive women. Seems like you have a lot of experience in this.

but who do you think is MOST inherently submissive: ISFJ's or INFP's ?

Again with the word submissive, let me say it like this, I think ISFJs and INFPs are one of the easiest to prey on if you're lacking self awareness and either irresponsible with others feelings or lacking the self awareness needed to empathize. I don't however think this is a flaw, INFPs for example tend to have a more trusting (and for ISFJs a derise to care for) nature and see the good in people and shitty people may leverage the best things about them in ways that are self serving.

Little things, like if I am dating someone else (I tell her she is the only one) and told her I didn't have sex in two years when in reality it was like yesterday lol

Dude, you're a flat out douche if that's seriously how you operate. If you're an ENTJ and you can get what you want with being direct and honest I think you need to be returned to the factory for reprogramming as you're firmware is corrupt. There are NOOOOO shortage of relationship styles that allow for that need which would also allow you to not have to lie along with letting you impress all the guys like who you currently are that are having to lie versus openly having two women.



As a side note, you joined this month and have 81 posts as an ENTJ, that is unheard of in here!! You may in fact be in the top five most prolific ENTJ posters already.

 

[PeaceBaby]

As a side note, you joined this month and have 81 posts as an ENTJ, that is unheard of in here!! You may in fact be in the top five most prolific ENTJ posters already.

Well, when an ENTJ is after something, they'll do anything to pursue that goal.

Dude, you're a flat out douche if that's seriously how you operate. If you're an ENTJ and you can get what you want with being direct and honest I think you need to be returned to the factory for reprogramming as you're firmware is corrupt.

Exactly.

 

[Jaguar]

Thats the problem with the INFJ dating now, she always knows when I am lying and gets very turned off by them. Hate that can't get away with anything.

Why don't you just tell the truth? Your behavior reeks of gutlessness.

 

[JClassic]

Why don't you just tell the truth? Your behavior reeks of gutlessness.

Again with the word submissive, let me say it like this, I think ISFJs and INFPs are one of the easiest to prey on if you're lacking self awareness and either irresponsible with others feelings or lacking the self awareness needed to empathize. I don't however think this is a flaw, INFPs for example tend to have a more trusting (and for ISFJs a derise to care for) nature and see the good in people and shitty people may leverage the best things about them in ways that are self serving.



Dude, you're a flat out douche if that's seriously how you operate. If you're an ENTJ and you can get what you want with being direct and honest I think you need to be returned to the factory for reprogramming as you're firmware is corrupt. There are NOOOOO shortage of relationship styles that allow for that need which would also allow you to not have to lie along with letting you impress all the guys like who you currently are that are having to lie versus openly having two wo


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As a side note, you joined this month and have 81 posts as an ENTJ, that is unheard of in here!! You may in fact be in the top five most prolific ENTJ posters already.

Well, when an ENTJ is after something, they'll do anything to pursue that goal.



Exactly.

Think I should respond to this. It was a playful lie. She spotted it right away. I said I was joking two minutes after I said it. The point was making is that they can spot a lie a mile away. It was on our first date (after she slept over). The purpose of me saying that was in response that INFJ's can spot a lie a mile away. And she actually lied to me about her partners, but last night told me the truth that she had sex two weeks ago. Everyone lies. This happened to be a playful lie like "yeah I haven't had sex in years I am practically a virigin". after two minutes of saying that she spotted it, and after that she pretty much can spot any bullshit. I tend to be sarcastic when dating.

Anyways, research shows EVERYONE lies between 10-200 times a day. But nevertheless this was a playful lie followed by just joking. Point is she was able to spot a lie a mile away. I was responding to someones post with example.

 

[JClassic]

Well, when an ENTJ is after something, they'll do anything to pursue that goal.



Exactly.

Well, I been researching MBTI types obsessively for awhile. Find it very interesting. My goal is to learn as much as I can, and I also think everyone in this forum is very smart and gives great advice. I also enjoy interacting with people.

 

[Luke O]

This post could have done with a poll.

 

[JClassic]

This post could have done with a poll.

yeah good idea, I think its too late for me to add poll but I just messaged the admin to see if she can add one to this post.

 

[PeaceBaby]

Well, I been researching MBTI types obsessively for awhile. Find it very interesting. My goal is to learn as much as I can, and I also think everyone in this forum is very smart and gives great advice. I also enjoy interacting with people.

Let me scratch away at your inferior Fi some more ... I see you coming here to seek a partner based on MBTI (or some other parameter) to find the "submissiveness" or level of "control" you desire as a cheap shortcut. If you are truly interested in D/s you have a lot to learn and would do better to research and figure out what it is you are truly seeking. True D/s are partners of equality, because each provides what the other needs.

So, what do you want? That's the first question.

 

[JClassic]

Let me scratch away at your inferior Fi some more ... I see you coming here to seek a partner based on MBTI (or some other parameter) to find the "submissiveness" or level of "control" you desire as a cheap shortcut. If you are truly interested in D/s you have a lot to learn and would do better to research and figure out what it is you are truly seeking. True D/s are partners of equality, because each provides what the other needs.

So, what do you want? That's the first question.

To know what the most submissive MBTI type is lol.

I don't think that is a cheap short cut. A women can't make a man a man, and I cannot make a women a women. I am trying to find that women with that inherent trait. I talk to a lot of women all the time, and yes like I said my INTJ (MBA Grade executive) ex fiance was extremely dominant but was submissive to me. I get it, I have done it before a few times, made a women want to follow me to the ends of the earth. I simply want to know the most submissive MBTI type so I can date that type and look out for it. While this is a very touchy subject and can be subjective just want to know. Emailed admin, trying to add poll on here that might help.

Just as if you wouldn't like a man to be feminine, nobody wants a women to be masculine. Submissive women are one of the most feminine sexy women. Not just what they say, but their submissive body language is very feminine.

Dude, you're a flat out douche if that's seriously how you operate. If you're an ENTJ and you can get what you want with being direct and honest I think you need to be returned to the factory for reprogramming as you're firmware is corrupt. There are NOOOOO shortage of relationship styles that allow for that need which would also allow you to not have to lie along with letting you impress all the guys like who you currently are that are having to lie versus openly having two women.

Also, lets take it down a notch with the name calling lol. I am pretty sure calling someone a "douche bag" is against the Terms of service of this forum (name calling, abusive language). While I been called that before a few times, there is no need for that on here, even if I deserve to be called that which I probally do from time to time lol.

 

[PeaceBaby]

Also, lets take it down a notch with the name calling lol. I am pretty sure calling someone a "douche bag" is against the Terms of service of this forum (name calling, abusive language). While I been called that before a few times, there is no need for that on here, even if I deserve to be called that which I probally do from time to time lol.

Whoa, I haven't called you anything in here. Re-read the last posts.

 

[JClassic]

Whoa, I haven't called you anything in here. Re-read the last posts.

I was referring to this:

Dude, you're a flat out douche if that's seriously how you operate. If you're an ENTJ and you can get what you want with being direct and honest I think you need to be returned to the factory for reprogramming as you're firmware is corrupt. There are NOOOOO shortage of relationship styles that allow for that need which would also allow you to not have to lie along with letting you impress all the guys like who you currently are that are having to lie versus openly having two women.

Just a gentle reminder about the terms of service of this forum. People might disagree and open debate or opinions are awesome but name calling doesn't really accomplish much. Thats all. But trust me, I probally deserve to be called that once in awhile, and do from women all the time but at least not here lol.

 

[1487610420]

MBTI is likely a poor reference. Context is more relevant. Think life style and goals. Cross relate with tendencies and behaviors. Loosely use as a reference for IRL correlation.

 

[Hank]

As an ENFP, I generally try to avoid situations in which someone creates an interaction that reveals who is going to be submissive. I do, however, know several Fi users (especially ENFP and INFP, myself included) that will be submissive in most matters unless it comes in conflict with something that matters to them. The conflict just isn't worth it otherwise. I know there's a whole discussion a few pages back about how being agreeable isn't the same thing as being submissive. To me, being agreeable is how I am submissive. I feel like a heel if I go through all the bother of proving I'm right about something that isn't going to matter in 24 hours.

 

[Samvega]

Just a gentle reminder about the terms of service of this forum. People might disagree and open debate or opinions are awesome but name calling doesn't really accomplish much. Thats all. But trust me, I probally deserve to be called that once in awhile, and do from women all the time but at least not here lol.

I think I'm in a grey area that will be just fine as I didn't actually call you a douche but said if that's seriously how you operate you would be one. You have said it was just a joke right and that isn't seriously how you operate? Which would mean that I didn't actually call you anything.

Either way you rub me all kinds of wrong and your dynamic is a dysfunctional mess from how you describe it. If I said it sounds like you two deserve each other would that be a tos violation too?

 

[mono]

ISFJs can be pretty submissive.

 

[JClassic]

This post was just made into a poll by admin, so vote !!

 

[Jaguar]

It was a playful lie. She spotted it right away. The purpose of me saying that was in response that INFJ's can spot a lie a mile away.

She, as in one. Just because she can spot a lie a mile away does not mean INFJs can spot a lie a mile away.

 

[ceecee]

But trust me, I probally deserve to be called that once in awhile, and do from women all the time but at least not here lol.

Hmmm...you deserve it here too.