Halla74
Artisan Conquerer
- Joined
- Jan 20, 2009
- Messages
- 6,898
- MBTI Type
- ESTP
- Enneagram
- 7w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
Are you over concerned with your desirability?
No, I'm very secure in my desirability. I know my strengths and my weaknesses. I maximize my strengths and minimize my weaknesses, and the overall package is me.
Are you obssessed with something or somebody?
Yes. I'm obsessed with my wife. I'm also obsessed with my Access Virus KC virtual analog synthesizer.
What kind of intense experiences attract you? Do you actively reach it?
I'm attracted to all kinds of intense experiences. I am an adrenaline fiend. I reach these experiences when I seek them out, or when they come across my path and everything is a go.
Are you paranoid in relationships? Jealous?
I've never been paranoid or jealous in any relationship.
Atention whoreness?
Guilty!
Are you aggressive?
Yes, when necessary.
Do you cultivate your masculinity? Feminity? Androgigny?
I cultivate my masculinity to an extreme. To me, being a man is not just being big and strong, that is only a small part of it. It is also necessary to be intelligent, hard working, devoted, compassionate, inventive, spontaneous, brave in the face of danger, and many other awesome virtues if you want modern day "man" credibility, at least in my book.
Are you or were you confused about your sexual orientation?
Never.
Do you fear intimacy? Avoidant?
No, I seek intimacy. I am secure, not avoidant.
How much are you opened to new sexual experiences?
Anything wifey and I want to do goes within the bounds of the marriage.
How much are you opened to new experiences as a general rule?
My middle name is Dionysus. I have a huge libido.
Do you aspire to "become one" with something or somebody?
Yes, but not in any context that exterminates a part of my individuality.
Do you consider yourself as sexy?
Hell yes.
Do you often receive compliments? How do you react to this?
Occasionally, yes. Sometimes for being fit, more often for being funny or nice.
Have you some passion for something or someone?
Yes. My wife, music, bodybuilding, and life in general!
How do you deal with peoples of the six differents variants (including the yours)?
I don't consider Ennegram as part of my interpersonal relationship skill set. I couldn't tell you how I deal with other types. I know what the Enneagram types of some of my friends are. That's it.
What is(are) the variant(s) of you mate(s)?
My wife is a Ring 1.
Do you identify with some desirable, sexy image and tend to look like them?
No. I identify with an ideal and try to emulate it. I don't try to model my own development after other people. I am my own person.
As an Sx/So, how would you explain the relationships between your sexual and social instincts?
I honestly don't know. I'll read other's responses and try to get a better understanding of this question.